He leaned over the balcony, the smell of the ocean as powerful as his voice as he shouted down āCan you help us out? Weāre trying to do a radio interview here.ā
āIām a contractorā, the man with the angle grinder yelled back, gruffly. āTime is money!ā
Softly softly catchy monkey. Alistair was not to be deterred. I was amazed by his confidence and businesslike approach to this out-of-the-ordinary situation. In any profession, overcoming obstacles is important ā how would he manage it?
He had travelled from London to Bournemouth to talk to me about my journey with trichotillomania and my approach to treating people who skin pick or pull out their hair. He had three hours in Bournemouth to gather enough information for a teensy segment. I had a lifetimeās experience to condense into 5 minutes. I needed help.
Having negotiated a deal with the dude with the angle-grinder, Alistair explained what he wanted me to show the audience. Confused, I asked āHow do you show someone something through the medium of radio?ā
āYou make them FEEL how you feel, you engage with them in a more verbal format with vivid descriptions.ā
I got it! This funny, very presentable and charismatic young man (Iām in my 50s, they donāt come visiting all the time) invited me to conjure up a feeling of compulsive hair pulling in a nutshell. It triggered my emotion.
āImagine you really love your cat, but it gets under your feet and in a temper, you kick himā, I said ā¦ āThen you think why the hell did I do that and you really hate yourself, but before you know it your legās gone out and youāve done it again and again and you just canāt stop. Imagine the build up of that self-hatred, moment after moment. Thatās how hair pulling feels!!!ā
Do you agree with my description? How do YOU feel when you pull? Can you paint a picture in words? Use the comment box below … Post a comment and I will do my best to respond to each and every one.